I really hate it when I meet someone who I find very physically attractive and then they talk and ruin the entire facade for me. I wish that people's personalities and intelligence didn't affect their attractiveness to me quite so much. I am like a dude in a LOT of ways but I definitely find that I have a hard time maintaining a physical attraction to someone who doesn't appeal to me mentally in some way.
Don't get me wrong, I have had sex with several people that couldn't carry a conversation in a bag. People who wouldn't even know how to open a book let alone have an intelligent discourse on something that interests me. We've all had those people in our lives, it's just as I get older I find that I have less patience and am less willing to make compromises. I get far more satisfaction out of someone who can turn me on mentally than someone with nothing more than a pretty face. Of course the reality of it is, there are far more dummies than smarties in the world and there is every chance that I might at some point end up in bed with a dummy again.
It happens *shrug* I mean shit, I've got NEEDS y'all but I am definitely more wary of the insipid drones.
Show me your brains, it's way hotter than your ass.
And if your brains aren't as hot as your face? Remember this saying -
If you think you have something to say, just wait 5 minutes and then shut the fuck up.